First Ritual Outline
So far, this is my basic, rough outline for what my entire soothing ritual would be like.
1. Tea, light chatting, allowing the patron to steer the conversation unless it's clear they are unable/unwilling. This would probably be the time to find out about any questions they had or anything. Preferences and such would already be out of the way because of some kind of screening process beforehand, which I have not yet devised.
2. Undressing, bathing, drying off. Ideally, a very large copper tub is what I would have. The kind with clawed feet. I'd also have the shower head detachable (and matching the tub, not some white plastic thing) for added ease. I would want it big enough so that I could be in the tub with them if desired or sit on a stool on the outside. Soft towels go without saying. A silk robe would also probably be provided.
3. Massage. Massaging the entire body and using lotion/oil/skin stuff.
4. If I deem it acceptable, sex.
5. Pillow talk if the patron desires it. Light psychotherapy fits here.
Throughout, there would probably be some music (Asian, Middle Eastern, Mediterranean?) and aromatherapy. I was thinking there could also be variations depending on the patron's preferences. The tea, the music, the mood they want (to a degree), and the sex (also to a degree).
I will be expanding and refining this list throughout my journey.
Topics to Come:
Room Decor
Color Psychology
Self Decor
Music
Tea Ceremony
Bathing
Appealing to the senses
Sex
Flowers
Massage
Dance
Kama Sutra
Tantra